I was working brutal hours and draining myself to help the woman who raised me stay in assisted living. She had always been there for me, so I never questioned what it was costing me. Then I showed up early one afternoon and overheard something that made me realize I had no idea what was really going on.
I’m forty, and the woman I call Mom is not my biological mother. My real mother died when I was eight. Then my dad married Linda.
Then my dad died two years ago. She never tried to take over. She never touched my mother’s things without asking.
She never pushed me to call her Mom. She just kept showing up. She drove me to school play rehearsals and waited in parking lots.
She came to every graduation, every move, every heartbreak that needed someone to sit with. She became my mother so slowly I never saw the exact moment it happened. After the funeral, after the paperwork, after the casseroles stopped coming, it was just me and Linda.
I wish grief had made me better. More present. More thoughtful.
It didn’t. I went back to work the way people go back to work when they don’t know what else to do with themselves. I called Linda.
I visited. But not enough. Never enough.
I knew it and I told myself I would fix it later, which is the lie people tell when they are not yet ready to face the cost of what they are avoiding. Then her health started sliding. Nothing dramatic at first.
She got tired more easily. She got unsteady. She fell once in her kitchen and laughed it off, but I saw the bruise on her arm and went cold.
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