I almost had my son’s best friend removed from the funeral because of what he wore. Then he said one thing that changed how the entire room saw him.
“I know half of you want me out of here right now.”
Theo stopped.
His voice cracked.
For a moment, he just stood at the microphone in that red dress while people whispered behind me.
Then he looked down at himself.
“And I know how this looks. It isn’t even mine. I borrowed it from my sister.”
A few people shifted in their seats.
My husband, Daniel, was still half-standing beside me.
I had one hand wrapped around his sleeve.
Theo swallowed.
“The reason I’m standing here in it is very simple.”
He looked toward Jack’s coffin.
“And it’s the saddest thing I know.”
The room went quiet.
My son Jack died 17 days after his 18th birthday.
Cancer.
Fourteen months from diagnosis to funeral.
It still feels obscene to reduce his life to those facts.
Jack loved old horror movies and burned grilled cheese because he refused to cook it on low heat.
He hated tomatoes but ate ketchup on everything.
He could name almost every capital city in the world and couldn’t remember to bring his laundry downstairs.
And Theo had been beside him for most of it.
The boys met when they were seven.
Theo lived four houses down.
By ten, he practically lived at ours.
He slept in our spare room so often that I eventually stopped calling it the spare room.
It became “Theo’s room.”
His home life wasn’t easy.
His parents separated twice, reconciled twice, then finally divorced with enough bitterness to poison every holiday afterward.
There were years when Theo spent Christmas with us because neither parent could agree whose house he was supposed to be at.
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