My name is Mira, and I am thirty-five years old, and I have spent most of my adult life believing that the distance between me and my family was geographic.
I was wrong about that. But I didn’t find out until Christmas Eve, in a snowstorm, standing in my parents’ hallway with a bag of gifts and a six-hour drive behind me, listening to my sister say she hoped I would crash my car so my money would come to her.
Let me back up.
I work as a software engineer for a large technology company, the kind with a campus and a cafeteria and a benefits package that includes things I never thought I would have access to when I was growing
up in the house my parents have owned for thirty years. I like my job genuinely, not just as a talking point at family gatherings. The problems are interesting. The work requires the kind of sustained
concentration that leaves no room for the background noise of everyday anxiety, which suits my particular brain.
Two years ago I made the final mortgage payment on my apartment. I remember the exact moment: sitting at my kitchen table at seven in the morning with a cup of coffee and the final bank statement on my laptop screen, watching the number confirm what I had been working toward for years. The feeling was not quite what I expected. Not triumph exactly. More like the specific physical sensation of setting down a weight you had been carrying long enough to forget it was there.
My savings are solid now. My investment account is growing in the methodical way that investment accounts grow when you are consistent and patient and live in a city where your company is paying well. I am not wealthy in any dramatic sense. But I am secure, and I have arrived at that security by making choices that my family, over the years, have described in various ways that all amount to the same thing: that I am strange, that I am difficult, that I am too serious, that I don’t know how to have fun.
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