I was thirty-six when I became a mother. The boy who made that possible was already twelve.
On the morning he turned eighteen, that same boy came down our stairs carrying an old suitcase. He set his house key next to my plate of birthday pancakes and thanked me for everything.
He thought he was saying goodbye.
He’d been planning that goodbye for six years, and I hadn’t known a thing about it.
For most of my adult life, I dreamed about having a baby.
I don’t mean a vague someday kind of dream. I mean the kind where you walk past the baby aisle at Target and your chest hurts. I had names picked out in a notebook. I had a box in the back of my closet with a tiny knitted hat my grandmother made before she died, for your first one, Emmy. I used to take it out and hold it.
But I had severe endometriosis. By thirty-two, I’d had three surgeries. By thirty-four, I’d been through two rounds of IVF. Both failed.
On a gray Tuesday in March, a doctor with kind eyes sat across a desk from my husband and me and said the word impossible. She said it gently, but she said it.
Richard held my hand while she said it.
In the parking lot afterward, he held me while I cried against the side of our car.
“We can still have a wonderful life, Emma,” he said into my hair. “Just the two of us. We’ll travel. We’ll go to Italy. We’ll sleep in on Sundays. We’ll be fine.”
I nodded into his coat.
I believed him. I believed he meant it kindly.
I still think he did, back then.
But I still wanted to be a mother.
That didn’t go away just because a doctor said my body couldn’t do it. If anything, it got louder. It sat in my chest like a stone.
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