The last gift my mother ever gave me was a porcelain tea set I treated like it could somehow keep part of her with me. A year after she died, my mother-in-law looked at it, rolled her eyes, and said, “They’re just cups.” Minutes later, I learned exactly how little she thought my grief was worth.
My mother was the only family I was truly close to.
She died last year after a short illness that moved so fast I still catch myself wondering whether we somehow missed an extra week we were supposed to get.
Grief had made the passage of time strange anyway.
We didn’t.
Grief had made the passage of time strange anyway; some mornings that year felt endless, while weeks disappeared before I noticed them passing.
A few days before my birthday, when she was already weak enough that opening a jar tired her out, she asked me to come over.
She had a box on the table.
“What’s this?” I asked.
“Mom, you didn’t need to get me anything.”
“Your birthday present.”
“Mom, you didn’t need to get me anything.”
“I know.”
She pushed the box toward me.
Inside was a porcelain tea set.
White cups with tiny blue flowers. Gold around the rims. A matching teapot with a curved handle.
She had used it every Christmas when I was little.
I stared at it.
“Do you remember this?”
I did.
She had used it every Christmas when I was little.
She smiled.
“I want you to have something of mine for years.”
“You just handed me your tea set and said ‘for years.’ What did you expect?”
I started crying.
“Don’t do that,” she said.
“You just handed me your tea set and said ‘for years.’ What did you expect?”
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