I refused to pay my sister’s rent for the third time, and she stopped speaking to me. A week later, an expensive restaurant called to confirm I was paying for her party. She clearly thought I’d be too embarrassed to refuse in public. She had no idea what I’d arranged before arriving.
My younger sister once told me that family shouldn’t keep score.
She said it after I asked when she planned to repay the money I’d lent her for rent.
At the time, I thought she was being defensive.
A week later, she invited 11 friends to an expensive restaurant, ordered almost $2,000 worth of food, and told the manager I’d be paying.
I’m Natalie, 38. My sister, Vanessa, is 31.
Our parents died several years apart, and for a long time I believed it was my job to make sure Vanessa never felt alone.
When Dad died, she was 22 and still figuring out what she wanted to do.
I helped with groceries and gave her rides to work.
When she lost her first apartment, she slept on my couch for six weeks.
But somewhere along the way, asking for help became expecting it.
She would call because her phone bill was overdue.
She would then post photographs of a weekend getaway.
She’d borrow money for tires and arrive at my house with expensive shopping bags.
Whenever I questioned her choices, she accused me of treating her like a child.
“You’re my sister, not my accountant,” she’d say.
The previous Friday, she came over after work and asked for $800.
“Just until next month,” she said.
“For what?”
“Rent. I’m behind again.”
I’d already paid part of her rent twice that year.
“What happened to your paycheck?”
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